Interview Etiquette

In essence, during an interview, you are being invited into someone else's space.

Don't make yourself at home.

This chapter explores the importance of interview etiquette, emphasizing the value of manners in making a positive impression. The text likens the nervousness of interviews to meeting a partner’s parents for the first time, where good behavior is key. The first rule is to respect the interview space by avoiding actions that may seem presumptuous, like sitting in the head of the table or helping yourself to drinks and snacks. Simple actions, such as sitting where you're invited and refraining from snooping, show respect for the interviewer’s space and set a good tone for the rest of the conversation.

Another important aspect covered is the simple act of accepting a drink when offered. While it may seem trivial, it’s a way to manage potential nervousness and demonstrate politeness. However, it’s important to avoid being overly demanding, like ordering complicated drinks, as it could create discomfort for your hosts. Opting for water is a safe and considerate choice, and avoiding grimacing or being overly critical of the provided drinks helps maintain a positive atmosphere.

Lastly, the chapter addresses the importance of small talk, particularly with people who may not be directly involved in the interview but are still part of the process. Being prepared for casual conversation with receptionists, security personnel, or assistants is vital. Keeping responses polite and light, without delving into controversial or personal topics, ensures you come across as socially aware and professional. By showing respect and poise in these interactions, you reinforce your suitability as a candidate for the role.

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