Small Talk Before an Interview

Messing up this part of the interview is easy. It's also unforgivable.

Remember that careers are about results and RELATIONSHIPS.

The first few moments before an interview, often filled with small talk, are more important than they seem. Questions like “How are you?” or “How was your trip in?” might feel routine, but they serve as a crucial opportunity to make a strong impression. Instead of responding with a bland “fine,” approach these moments with enthusiasm—smile, make eye contact, and express genuine excitement about being there. Small talk isn’t just politeness; it’s a chance to show that you’re friendly, confident, and someone the interviewer would enjoy working with.

Responding effectively means not just answering but also keeping the conversation going. Adding a comment like, “I’m really looking forward to this meeting” reinforces your enthusiasm. Similarly, passing the “medicine ball” by asking a simple follow-up question—such as inquiring about the office or the interviewer’s role—shows engagement and conversational skill. If your trip was easy, mention it briefly and positively. If there were delays, acknowledge them lightly while keeping the tone upbeat, ensuring that even a rough commute doesn’t cast a negative shadow over your interview.

First impressions matter, and your interview starts the moment you walk in the door. Small talk is a key part of building rapport and demonstrating interpersonal skills, which are just as critical as your qualifications. Practicing these early interactions ensures you come across as confident, positive, and engaged from the very start. Want to master the art of small talk and make sure you shine in those crucial first minutes? Listen to this episode of The Interviewing Series and walk into your next interview fully prepared!

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